Each man has a different idea of a perfect woman and this could sometimes be the reason why women find it difficult to make them fall in love. Some are just too confined within what they want that it’s just too hard for women to penetrate into their sphere. So how do you melt a difficult man’s heart?
Catch his interest.
So what does this guy usually engage into? Is he into sports because he’s the active type? Or he is the type who’d rather spend the day at the library? You’d have to know what he indulges himself into most of the time so that you’d know how to approach him.
Don’t make the conversation suck.
Once you finally get him to talk with you, make sure that you make sense and are able to exchange ideas with him. Don’t let him silently wish that he should have spent his time with someone else.
Give him a hundred percent of your attention.
Be sure that you listen intently and know how to respond correctly when you are asked about something.
Be a woman that’s worthy of him.
A difficult man is what he is because he believes that he’s a cut above the rest. He’s not one of those jerks that you can just pick up and play with. This is a man with substance and he’s looking for someone who’s exactly like he is. Impress him by making him see that he has already met his match.
Let him catch a glimpse of what a wonderful future it would be with you.
Some men appear to be difficult but, in fact, they’re softies. They are just hiding something inside, perhaps they’ve been hurt by someone in the past and they’re just afraid to love again. Being difficult is just their defensive mechanism. In order to make him fall in love with you, you must let him feel that he’ll experience nothing but joy when he’s with you.
It’s still best to keep him at an arm’s length.
If you’ve finally piqued his interest, you could slow things down a bit and start playing hard-to-get. This will work to your advantage as now, you’ll be the one who’s going to be chased. All you have to do is wait.
Show him that your faithfulness would never wane.
It won’t be hard for him to realize that you’re the perfect person for him once he sees that your fidelity it at a hundred percent. Make him feel that he’s the only one for you but make sure that your world doesn’t revolve around him as well.